Love man

In the video "Love: You're Doing it Wrong" the speaker explains how our own desire for value from others is actually what lowers our own value. It gives us inherent value. This being said it is the source of our insecurities, In Love: Hurts they talk about the jealousy within that insecurity, which is derived from studies that consist of partners with intense love for each other. This jealousy is explained by the frenchmen as a way of exposing what we value most in ourselves and in others. On a personal note I can personally vouch for this man when he says we really do seek value from others. It is undoubtebly true, in order to feel positive emotions we have to seek those out from others and when we do not seek that value it is what causes these insecure emotions and is what creates couples obsessed with "performance". I believe the two articles integrate are similar within each other. in an accurate description, they are both about love being sought out and the emotions that can get mixed in the process.